I think absense can work both ways. It amplifies things that are already in your relationship. If you both are already dedicated and focused on each other than the absense will show you how dedicated and focused you are and make you appreciate what you have. If neither of you are very dedicated to each other or preoccupied with your own personal desires you may find that you have been distracted from the relationship in the time while you were apart. This is just my take on it. I have had a long distance relationship, local relationship, and one where the partner traveled frequently. Distance just shows you what you have.
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