Since you don't have anything to hide, maybe allowing your wife to read some of the emails once in awhile just to let her know the things that your discussing with your friend would help. Proving your still being faithful to her in every way. THen you can find out if she has a problem with it.
I know that my husband has close female friends that he emails and some he talks to on the phone. When their down and need advice he's there for them and Im ok with that because he's open and honest with me about everything, if I'm setting next to him and he's checking his email he doesn't try to hide it, he opens it because he knows that there's nothing there to hide from me and that's what makes the difference. If he's on the phone with someone he doesn't run in another room while he talks to them. Honesty is everything to us, and as long as we trust each other then we don't have a problem. So that's my advice just be open and honest with your wife and you should be ok!
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