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I have almost 50/50 male/female friends. I have the problem of being too passive. I can tell right away when I'm with them that they pay more attention to the more outgoing guys. I am not really that outgoing, so I usually have no idea what to do. On a few occasions, some of my female friends have talked to me about their personal problems and that leads me to believe that I am in the "just a friend" category. What sort of step up from passive can I take? I'd rather not be too passive as that would make me into a sheep and I'd rather not be herded.
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