I don't really see this as a conflict depending on motive. Most people use their training/skills to help out others that their interested in. I agree with above, it becomes a problem if you are helping to try and get with her.
Like a guy who is a mechanic, would probably fix a girls car as a favor if he was with her or just a friend, but if he was fixing girls cars to get them in bed that would be slimy. (somehow this example seems more tangible to me)
As a returning mature college student, I sure wish I had been more "applied" the first time I went when I was 18. I did complete my diploma OK, but sure could have pulled better marks off.
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