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actinic · 07-24-2003, 09:15 PM

I agree with Ben. As an "X-smoker" of 3 months, I quit when I was ready to quit after 15 years of smoking that crap. She'll have to come to that decision herself whether to quit or not. You have to decide to accept the fact that she's a smoker or not.

Just be honest about your feelings about smoking and IMHO there no need for tactics. That'll bring resentment down the road. At least she stopped smoking around you. That's a few less cigs she's smoked in a day. One day she'll start thinking of quitting. If she's not then she's not. What can you do?

07-24-2003, 09:15 PM	#17 (permalink)
actinic Crazy Location: Toronto, ON	I agree with Ben. As an "X-smoker" of 3 months, I quit when I was ready to quit after 15 years of smoking that crap. She'll have to come to that decision herself whether to quit or not. You have to decide to accept the fact that she's a smoker or not. Just be honest about your feelings about smoking and IMHO there no need for tactics. That'll bring resentment down the road. At least she stopped smoking around you. That's a few less cigs she's smoked in a day. One day she'll start thinking of quitting. If she's not then she's not. What can you do? __________________ Drugs lead nowhere...but it's the scenic route Last edited by actinic; 07-24-2003 at 09:17 PM..