Yeah, everything you all say makes sense. It just seems like most girls tend to actually be more into guys they don't know. It sounds ridiculous, but most of the girls I know are interested in guys that they, well, don't know. Either that or guys that are obviously completely faking their entire personalities. Like, I have this one friend who is a really good guy. He's smart and I agree with him on most issues. However, he is completely fake around other people. He always acts like he's in control of situations. I WOULD do that, but I feel like if I do, then I'll have to keep the facade the entire time I'm with some girl I get by acting that way. So it seems that I have to act like myself in order to enter a successful relationship, but can't enter a relationship at all if I'm myself.
Is it possible that girls are different after the mid-twenties or so?
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