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Don't get into the relationship expecting her to quit. You can't make someone else do something they really don't want to do. If you try to get her to quit you will only piss her off. You have to decide if her smoking is a relationship breaker or not. I suggest you be upfront with her now and tell her you want to get to know her better and that if things work out you will eventually expect her to quit for her health and yours. Have her put some thought into whether she will be able to quit. If she doesn't think she will ever give up the habit, then get out. If she says she will quit eventually tell her you will help her in any way you can, but make it clear, if the time comes and she can't quit, you won't stay and watch her trash her health.
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