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Originally posted by trigger123
I also agree about the weight issue and her own self image. I should look into that some more. I have always tried to let her know how beautiful I think she is by telling her all the time...
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You know, that's exactly what you should be doing but I have rarely seen that make much of a difference in a woman's image of herself. But if you don't, that
will affect it negatively. It's a potential landmine. But you should always tell her you think she's beautiful to you... it's important to communicate those things, not just think them to yourself.
Try to find an activity you can do together that might help with that. Make it fun and having absolutely nothing to do with weight or image - let that be a happy side-effect. Hiking, tennis, running, bikign... all sorts of options. Buy her some lingerie you'd like to see her in. Find a really romantic restaurant and surprise her with a dinner date.
Lots of options, but it should all be done gently. Make a big deal out of it... and it will be. Not to say it shouldn't be discussed, just don't let it get "heavy" ya know?