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Originally posted by ninety09
[B]I must be weird or something. Feels like I'm the only male who doesn't care at all for lesbians, or for having a threesome.
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Nah; I know more than a few guys who are ambivalent about or just plain don't even like it. To each his own... Do what's comfortable for you.
I've noticed it since the early 90's, but that's when I started exploring my own sexuality so maybe it was there and I just didn't notice it til then. Maybe that's just the cycle for most of us...
Men are taught to fear gay men. I've never cared one way or the other, but I've seen it my whole life and the repercussions are evident in a lot of ways, not the least of which is this current topic.
I've had threesomes with two women and with two men. Big whoop - everyone had a good time and that was the point anyway. What really gets me is how many guys wouldn't even consider the latter - somehow, being naked in the same room with another man makes you "gay" and that's abhorrent. Feh. You know... it's possible to accomplish that without sucking someone's dick, if that's not your thing... Narrow thinking based on fears makes my skin crawl. If you're just not into it, great, do what works for you... but when you see people reacting from irrational fears... what a waste.
Besides, like Woody Allen said, "bisexuality doubles your chances for a date on Saturday night."
