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Originally posted by Jim Kata
I would "cheat" all over her face for saying that.
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Thank you for the first out-loud laugh of the day.
OK, denim's "set her straight" may be a little harsh, but I am in agreement with the intended spirit of the past few responses. It sounds like you two are on vastly different pages about at least one important thing... what else? I wouldn't exactly say she needs to be "set straight" but some agreements need to be reached, or you need to separate. Unless you like drama and misery. Then, uhhh... go for it. I also wouldn't say it's good advice to just go ahead and do it and intentionally not tell her, knowing it bothers her. That's as unfair as anything else might be.
Ya gotta work this out with her through communication, whatever the outcome. Have you talked to any of her friends about the topic? Has she? I know it's a little embarrassing, but this issue is going to reach far beyond just the next six months - if you're getting married, you've got a lifetime ahead of you with this woman. Best not to start sweeping issues under the rug from the outset...
edit: hahaha yeah. what she said ^^^