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macmanmike6100 · 07-18-2003, 04:21 PM

wow, sounds like this (no offense) small incident hurt you pretty deeply. My best advice is to really just forget about it, other than acknowledging it as a learning experience...learning that some women suck.

Honestly, don't let this bother you at all. Don't continue to tell yourself that this is something "unresolved". It is resolved: the girl didn't work out, she was weird, and you both parted ways.

Don't think of her as "that unique girl"...I can assure you, she is not. It might feel weird to totally destroy a fantasy that you sound like you lived with (this "amazing, special, strange girl") but do it, and start meeting other people.

I think that it was really cool that she actually started talking to you in the first place. She had initiative, and you sound like you liked it.

Do the same, then, and go to a coffeehouse, library, someplace that you like to be and talk with some women. Meet people, and don't worry about this little thing that happened way back when.

About her getting in touch with you, yes that's very weird. I think that you should seriously just let it go. Don't reciprocate friendship...she'll get the point. You need to get her out of her head because the mere thought of her is debilitating for you. You can't eat or sleep? That's not good for you, so like I said, ditch her. Don't try to reconnect whatsoever. And start on a fresh path.

Good luck, and keep us all posted.

07-18-2003, 04:21 PM	#10 (permalink)
macmanmike6100 High Honorary Junkie Location: Tri-state.	wow, sounds like this (no offense) small incident hurt you pretty deeply. My best advice is to really just forget about it, other than acknowledging it as a learning experience...learning that some women suck. Honestly, don't let this bother you at all. Don't continue to tell yourself that this is something "unresolved". It is resolved: the girl didn't work out, she was weird, and you both parted ways. Don't think of her as "that unique girl"...I can assure you, she is not. It might feel weird to totally destroy a fantasy that you sound like you lived with (this "amazing, special, strange girl") but do it, and start meeting other people. I think that it was really cool that she actually started talking to you in the first place. She had initiative, and you sound like you liked it. Do the same, then, and go to a coffeehouse, library, someplace that you like to be and talk with some women. Meet people, and don't worry about this little thing that happened way back when. About her getting in touch with you, yes that's very weird. I think that you should seriously just let it go. Don't reciprocate friendship...she'll get the point. You need to get her out of her head because the mere thought of her is debilitating for you. You can't eat or sleep? That's not good for you, so like I said, ditch her. Don't try to reconnect whatsoever. And start on a fresh path. Good luck, and keep us all posted. Last edited by macmanmike6100; 07-18-2003 at 04:24 PM..