I don't mean this to be rude... But it says a LOT about you that you go to "fidelity" with this one.
I've said it before and I'll say it again: it's ALL about communication. If you look around the forum, you'll find lots of threads like this, where somebody got their feelings hurt because of something somebody did while naked, and then they got rude and started ignoring somebody, and somebody else got their feelings hurt. THE common thread is: there's no TALKING going on, except the chatter in your head!
Come to think of it, I've even said it before that I've said it before! And I'll say it again that I'll say it again!