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i have to add a smidge bit more than the other ladies because I both agree and disagree with them. Yes, you should tell her but keep in mind how personally secure youur wife is. you have been with her for years so that is the easy part. The hard part is telling her while being sensitive to her feelings, because if she has lower self esteem than most she could feel threatened, hurt , even more insecure about your marriage, and jealous because you may or may not talk to her about similar intimate things. All of these things can lead to trouble in your relationship although not too bad if you have good communication etc. if that is shakey it can lead to accusation, a feeling of betrayal and ultimately a lot of hurt feelings on both sides. So, my advice is no matter what you do tread carefully!!
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For everything there is a neverending cycle- birth, death, rebirth.
Evil can and will not exist without good and visa versa.
You also reap what you sew. There is a sliver of truth in every saying -those are a few!!
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