First of all, I'm sorry Sparhawk, to read your sad news. This is a great opportunity for growth. I suggest going to the higher ups and saying, "you know, I was really interested in blah blah position. I'm disappointed I did not get it and want to know truthfully what I can do to improve myself so that you will consider me next time blah blah happens?" Then graciously accept and apply the feedback! You've done two things by taking this step: 1. You let your bosses know your intent. 2. You show a willingness to take and apply feedback -- always a plus! Good luck!
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