Thanks for the help you guys! I don't think she really cares much about having an orgasm or not. Actually, I am probably more concerned with it than she is (i think it's a guy thing) and no I havn't made a big deal out of it with her. The last thing I want to do is stress her out. I know she was sexually assaulted in the past and I was actually the first person she told. Could she not be orgasming because of this? I really hope it's not that because that sounds like a worst case scenario sort of thing. I really would rather not talk about that with her. Even though I'm one of the most gentle and understanding people on this planet, I still think she is extremely embarassed and uncomfortable talking about it to me. Should I try other measures before I talk to her about that, like the vibrator?
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