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Originally posted by Donkeypuncher
But... he doesn't. He said explicitly, "i just wanna fuck." So yeah, you're right... there are a lot of women who are looking for "something more," but it seems like you're still saying that he should act like he wants to get to know those women when he said flat-out all he wants to do is fuck. That's going to leave him disappointed and frustrated and her feelings hurt.
Sorry - I'm not trying to be difficult, but it seems like you keep saying he should act like he wants to be in a relationship when that's clearly not what he said he wanted.
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I can see your point totally...I really do and no, I am not saying to lead women on by pretending to want more...that's just not right. I guess the point I was trying to make is to me it appeared that he wasn't actually TELLING the girls that all he wanted to do was f***.....it was in his brain but he didn't go up to them and say "Hey babe...I'm just looking for a quickie - you in?" If that is/was the case then hey - more power to him and there shouldn't be any boohooing from any girls after the fact. BUT...if that was in his mind (and not verbalized) then we have a whole new ball of wax to play with!
I guess only iloveredheads can answer whether or not they were informed beforehand what the expectations were!
And don't apologize for being difficult! lol....I love a good back-and-forth conversation....I just didn't want to be misunderstood!
