how old is your girlfriend? anorgasmia can have both physiological and pyschological causes. Many women (including my girlfriend) have had problems with this and have found they can have their first orgasm with a vibrator. Once they're able to have their first, they can ususally find different ways of achieving orgasm. It's possible that she may need to see a sex therapist to overcome the issue.
I'm getting long winded but here is the last question. Is this more of a problem for you, or her? If she's actually satisfied and you're making a big deal out of it, you could be causing more harm.
Best of luck!
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