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Paranoia?
Okay, I've been with my woman for 2 years now. I feel like we have a very healthy nearly perfect relationship. I love her very much and until recently never doubted her love for me. So here it goes.
A friend of mine was over at her house this weekend. We all went to eat and went back to her place and just hung out. We smoked a lil herb, had a couple of drinks (except for her, she doesn't even drink one drink if she has to drive anywhere). This is where it gets odd (for me).
a)There was a bee flying around outside. She is terrified of all insects...but when it came by her, she ran right pass me and hid behind my friend for protection. I don't know if its just the macho man inside of me, but in my head i was thinking (why is she behind him for protection and not me?).
#2 she kept commenting on how cute my friend looked in some new shorts he had just got when we went out to eat. I usually don't mind stuff like that cause she is just a friendly girl. And if she sees beauty (or something cute) in something or someone, I cannot fault her for saying it. I don't know if it was me being dumb about the whole thing because of the whole "protection" scenario up above. But I did raise my eyebrows with suspicion.
and lastly...my friend cut himself, and my girlfriend hates blood, but she went in the house, got some ointment and bandages and fixed him up herself.
I want to bring it up with her, but don't want to seem like that paranoid boyfriend.
And when we first started dating she said my friend was handsome but totally not her type, but then later on (pretty recently) she compared him to a movie star that she has said she would fuck in the past.
Am I being a retard about this whole thing? She is just a friendly girl to begin with .... and i was smoking some pot so that could have made me more paranoid and the alcohol could have made mountains out of mole hills.... but it still is bothering me a bit two days later.
I should probably also add that my friend is quite the ladies man, handsome, athletic, very talented in everything he does, and very charming.
And I'm just your average ordinary Jim.
I don't think I would normally come and ask a bunch of people I don't know for advice, but our circle of friends is pretty tight so I can't really talk to anyone else about this without it possibly getting out. So forgive me for being a girly man.
Take it sleazy
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