motdakasha

I feel that if you think you need a "game" to get chicks, in the long run, you probably won't get one of substance. If you go by some sort of formula, you'll always get the same chicks. If you find the chicks you get aren't to your liking, you get stuck in a rut. Realize that many women are all very different and that the way to get one of them is also very varied.

Also, acting silly can easily be interpretted as being retarded (sorry, poor choice in words but that's how I describe it) or immature. Check their reactions, if they're not really laughing, you should probably rethink this. I once watched some random show on eMpTyV and a guy and a girl were hooked up and each had a date counselor observe them. This one guy acted what he thought was "silly," but he was just plain obnoxious. He was so focused on being silly that he didn't even realize the girl was seriously grossed out by his behaviour when she said she lost her appetite (he was playing with his food in a decent restaurant... talk about embarrassing). I'm very biased about this because I hate class-clown types, so just go based on how other people react to your sillyness. If it's welcomed, then by all means do whatever makes you and others happy. If it's either not well-received, or doesn't make an impact, it seems kind of pointless to continue, then, doesn't it?

One plan of action, I suppose, is changing your attitude (I don't know what yours is, so this is all hypothetical). I usually see people who are constant goofs as a sign of insecurity. Try acting more mature and more confident. See if that changes anything.

Hope this helps..

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