It's always a good thing to try to do better than you've done before. It's good to set goals and then work to achieve them. It's also good to constantly try to improve yourself through education, experiencing things, etc.
Directing your energy away from sexual things and towards other constructive avenues is a noble goal. However, you're still you. Don't deny it or be ashamed of it. Sexuality is not brutish. Well, it can be depending on your approach, but it doesn't have to be. It all depends on you.
Maybe instead of trying to deny urges and sexuality, you could study up on it and try to find ways of approaching it that aren't so brutish. Just a thought. Good luck.
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