Need some first time advice, please..
Ok, I'm a 19 year old male virgin (by choice). I've been friends with this girl Debi for a few months now and we've really hit it off recently. She's just come out of a rather bad relationship, the guy treated her like crap and me and my friends always felt bad for her. So she ended that and came to the realization that I like her, and now she likes me, which is very good, because we get along really well and make a good couple, from friends' points of view.
Anyway, last night we were at a party, and we were flirting with each other really really heavily. She was all over me, I was all over her, life was good. She's told me numerous times that she's horny, really really really horny, which I obviously (as a guy) find to be a good thing, especially since she's attracted to me. But therein lies the problem. We were alone on atleast 10 different occasions, and I could tell she wanted to take advantage of that fact, but no matter what I couldn't work up the balls to do anything about it.
I like her, I like her alot. I want to be with her and I wouldn't mind losing my virginity any time soon, but I'm afraid that the more opportunities I have to be with her, the more times I'm going to wuss out. And I'm sure after that happens so many times she's going to just give up and I'm going to lose my chances with her.
So, when it comes down to it, can you experienced people give me some advice on how to go about it? Or atleast something that will make me not act like a scared seventh grader? I'm so embarassed that I couldn't do anything it's unreal, I need help!
|