I agree with the ladies above. However, if you are still having a hard time on this situation, try a little role reversal. What would you like HER to do if she was the one to find her best friend, who happens to be male? If you'd like her to tell you, then that is what you should do. If she would let you read her e-mails, then you should think about doing that. Either way, think of how it would effect you, and try and do the things you would have her do. This kind of thinking always works for me.
Megs
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