It doesn't seem to me you're crossing any lines, but I'm not your wife. If you have concerns about it, the best thing to do might be to bring it up to your wife and be sure that she's comfortable with the level of intimacy you've established with this other person. I can't think of any reasonable person who would object to your re-establishing an old friendship, but we each have different buttons that get pushed. I have exactly the opposite reaction that daoist has - I think if you're so concerned about betraying your wife you may be feeling a bit guilty about something, or at the very least concerned that your wife will perceive some transgression.
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