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Originally posted by 123dsa
Thanks for the feedback...
Clarification-we do use lube.
I'm not pushing anything, I guess I was just hoping that I wasn't the only one to experience this. Like I said we have a great relationship and I know that this isn't a big deal, just looking for the magical cure I guess.
And 6.5"is girth...
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You're about an inch and a half bigger than average, girth wise (according to Ansell's survey), or around 30% bigger than normal. Anyone who thinks size is all gravy can come ask you about the drawbacks 8).
Seriously, though, my suggestion here would be to proceed with the same kind of advice normally given for people who want to try anal. Work your way up. Start with fingers, and slim vibrators or dildos. Get her accustomed to being penetrated, and comfortable, because the pain in the past has probably made her clench up even more.
Also, consider brief penetration - don't try and go until you hit orgasm; work around for a short while, and get off some other way, taking longer over time.
Encourage her to say if she feels like she's begining to get sore, and make it clear you're happy to get off with a handjob or oral after withdrawing (assuming she's comfortable with that).