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Hey, ugly people have sex, too. Look, I'm in the same position you are in and I'm almost 27. I'm sure there's all sorts of stupid reasons in my head why I'm still a virgin, still never been kissed.
No one's got some secret that they are going to post here that is going to suddenly transform you into a different person. If there's something you don't like about yourself, then you're going to have to work your ass off to change it. It won't be easy. Fat bastard like me? Eat right and exercise, for the rest of your life. Lack confidence with women? Keep going up and talking to them.
Don't pick the hottest woman in the bar and try to get her to blow you in the bathroom. Try talking to a girl in class or at work about the weather or homework or whatever stupid mundane shit we all talk about. Pay attention to her reactions. Learn what makes people light up. Ask questions. And keep doing that for the rest of your life.
And if that seems harder than just dying, well, hey. Death is always going to be there, waiting at the end of your life. No one can take your death away from you. Do drugs, drink, eat fast food, and save up to go somewhere where prostitution is legal and get laid. Lather, rinse, repeat, die at forty. People may judge you, but screw them, they can live their own life.
First thing you have to do, however, is learn to love yourself. Your ugly, low self-esteem self. I recommend starting simply: I am assuming that you jerk off. Even if you don't like anything else about yourself, somewhere in there is a guy who gives you orgasms whenever you want. No questions asked, no headaches, no "not tonight honey, I'm tired." Love that guy. Start with him, build from there.
My two cents.
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