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Or being with the same person for 10 years will do it.
Most people are wired to be serial monogamists with occassional cheating on the side.
Unfortunate, but true.
Might be time to step back and examine your sexual moral inclinations and see if this really works for you.
Maybe you're like most and your instincts want you to move on, tho you still love her. Instinct, culture, and intellect can easily go in 3 different directions.
Maybe you're naturally polyamorous and your instincts want you to go with that already. Be careful if this is the case - polyamory is getting a bad name because most people abuse the term.
Maybe you're not in love with her anymore and you're just in denial.
Maybe you're actually upset with yourself and it's manifesting in your libido.
Hard to say from here, really.
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