Lube Lube Lube, and when ya think that you are using way too much Lube, you're using about half what ya need. Too much lube is a good thing. By the way, did anybody mention lube? I would seriously look into a lube called
Anal-Ease I don't know if it's safe for vaginal use (aalthough I can't imagine why it wouldn't be), but it contains benzocaine, which should help her slightly w/ the pain.