Okay, a bit of history first (Please bear with me!)
I'm 26, I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 10 years and we still love each other very much. I suffer from clinical depression, and am on medication for it.
The Problem:
For the past year or so I've had absolutely no interest in sex. I still find my girlfriend very attractive and can imagine sex with her, but when it comes round to actually doing something- zip, nada. I can get an erection, thats not the problem, the problem is I just don't care. That goes for oral sex as well. I like to help her masturbate and go down on her, but when it comes to pleasure for me, I have no interest. I masturbate sometimes, and that works. Its as though there is a mental block when it comes to my pleasure from her (or, as far as I can tell, anyone!)
I've tried working these feelings out, and have found that partly I'm embarrassed. I don't understand why this should be. Why should I be embarrassed by a woman I've been with for so long, and had enjoyable sex with so many times? And its not just that, theres also that lack of interest.
Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I can do? I really don't want this to destroy our relationship.
Sorry if this post rambles a bit
