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1) You've told all of us hoe you feel about her, but have you shown her how you feel about her? Have you actually gone out of your way to be nice to her without asking for anything in return, or have you done nice things as a prelude to asking her out? She may think you are only being nice to get her, and hence she's not interested - it sounds like she got hurt by this previous asswipe and she's afraid to make the same mistake again. Be really nice, but don't try to ask her out or bed her. Just show her what a great guy you are and how much you really would help her out.
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I’ve come to the same conclusions actually, and this is exactly how I’m playing it out. I have a long history of misinterpreting things, but if I’d have another go at it, I’d say that it’s actually working - she does consider me to be a nice guy and I help out whenever I can. I guess I can see how I could fark it all up with overdoing it, so I got that covered. Good points, though, so thanks!