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I guess the fact that we are BOTH happy , and i stress the BOTH cos you seem to pass that bit over, does not come into it?
This woman is as independant as I am and is very capable of letting me know when things are not going good, and has done, doesnt come into it??
Hell you are saying as long as we do the norm and live our lives the way people expect us, not the way we want to and are happy with our choices, is the way to go.
As for stringing her along you are suggesting this girl is a love sick puppy that will be lead blind.
We have lived our lives the way WE want to, and will continue to live our lives quiet happily the way WE (cos after all it is a joint decision) want to.
OH as for driving a wedge between her family and her, we just attended her mothers anniversay mass last night. As she cried she turned to me and said there is not a day that goes by that she wishes that it was her father not her mother that had died.
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its evolution baby
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