ASDF,
What you are afraid of is the WORD NO!! If you talk to a girl and you ask if she would like to get a drink or go to a movie the worst thing that could happen is she says "NO"......big fucking deal, odds are you will never see her again.
Rejection is the worst for a male ego, well that and a woman saying you have a small penis
anyhoo most VERY FINE women out there are not asked out because men think they are too hot and don't want to be rejected by them.
Example:
There was a Asian hostess at a restaurant I frequent and none of my friends would ask her out because she is an 11......very fucking HOT!! I would always listen(very important here..listening) to guys make small talk with her and I remembered her replies. So I would ask her questions about herself and make small talk. Well I got up the nerve and said what the fuck and asked her out....I am in no way a macho stud hunk or whatever term these dweebs call themselves.
We had a nice time and began dating for a few years, her daughter stole my heart and she ripped it the fuck out....not once but twice.....I quit listening
If yoou think NEGATIVE you will be NEGATIVE.....wake THE FUCK UP BRO and quit putting yourself down. Get a tape on self esteem and listen to it. You may also try reading the book of body language...I did and sometimes I go to a bar, watch and laugh myself silly. That book is so right on the money
Now ask yourself a question...if some of these fat ugly lazy ass slobs in this world have a girlfriend why don't you?? Because you are afraid of the word "NO" so say to yourself what the fuck...and go for it. And if you think the world is watching, and judging you let me give you a clue......THEY'RE NOT!!
Happy trails
