don't let something some stupid kid did in 7th grade haunt you like this. Obviously she got cold feet on the dance floor and responded like any immature kid would in an embarrassing situation: she froze up. She's probably still embarrassed about it, which is probably why she hasn't tried to talk to you since.
What exactly is it that you're feeling here? that you've missed out on love? or that you felt love but it wasn't reciprocal? Has this experience set the tone for your 'love-life' since? It seems that you've been pining over this for far too long, and it's been keeping you from going out and finding love (cause trust me, it'll be a loooong wait). Life is a series of trial and error; don't let one failure stop you from going out there and trying again.
I know what you're feeling, I've gone through similar rants before as well... but the success of your love life is more dependant on your own actions than anyone else's, and at least you can control your own actions.
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