TFP just saved me making a big mistake. I'm in a very similar situation to this and, having read this post I'm gonna do the right thing.
Being a laid back sort of person I was just going to go with the flow and see what happens, but with my new found perspective, (thanks to all the positive replies on here) I'm going to call it off.
Maybe she'll hate me for it, maybe she won't. She definately wouldn't appreciate being led on for a few months.
There's a half the weight off my shoulders. I hope I don't see her cry though, I'm a real sucker for tears.
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