something to consider is that you're both in college... a time when most people are sowing their wild oats and feeling their personalities out... it's not prime settling-down territory. i say be a romantic, have fun, and enjoy everything, but don't try to weigh it down with "definitions" and "clarifications" on what exactly this relationship is or isn't. when you do so, you run the danger of creeping her out, or perhaps even driving her away through forcing her to make a desicion about what you two are (or aren't). it's sweet that you wanna settle down, but i say just enjoy what you have. putting too much thought into it could really skew it.
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