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Originally posted by Forks
i dont think this sounds like an infection. most infections have a fishy odor that is quite noticeable or a yeasty smell(like bread). she probably just sweats quite a bit during the day and needs to shower first- which by all means you should inspire her to do. also, you might suggest she do a bit of shaving down there as hair can retain odor even after washing.
sometimes certain individuals just have lax grooming habits. she may not be washing as thoroughly as she needs to and the odor is a result of that. invite her to your house and get in the shower with her. you should wash her areas and just happen to have some strong antibacterial soap ready(im talking medical quality stuff here). make it a very pleasant experience for her- but dont go soaping up her vagina that much as it may give her an infection she doesn't need(and this is not the source of the odor). stick to the other hole. use a soft bristle brush or a loofah and tell her you "like to wash it, it turns you on". i mean clean that thing well, its likely it hasnt been washed like this before(probably just a cursory rinse here and there). spread it apart and really get the crevices nice and clean. when you are satisfied its cleaned to your standards, reward her with a little licky licky. she will be looking forward to this the next time, i promise. (by the way, toss the loofah afterwards)
buy her some new underwear as old ones retain all kinds of nasty microbes that start rebreeding as soon as they are back on again- make sure they are breathable cotton. encourage her to take long soaking baths by purchasing some bath salts or mustard bath packets(these are great for skin purification and feel real nice).
finally (and most importantly) discuss wiping habits. toilet paper wiping is not sufficient for good hygiene. the odor is not affected by wiping. it is a good practice to wash after wiping whenever possible or to use some kind of flushable sanitary wet wipes. the odor is the enemy here, as allowing it to remain in this area will create further problems. how on Earth could you possibly discuss this with her? again, just bring her to your house and have the wipes in your bathroom for your personal use. talk about how important hygiene is to you and how you love using them. she will be intrigued and may even try yours. buy her a pack when you are at the store together and say, "you really should try these, they are great". anyways, good luck and don't be discouraged. hygiene is contagious and when she feels what really being clean feels like she will find it difficult to be unclean. im sure she will convert easily.
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Forks, your a genius. Not only have you easily remedied his situation but you have also provided enough information here for anyone that will and has come across this type of similar situation. Great work and much appreciated by all who read it.