The best thing you can do is ignore the guy unless he gets scary intrusive. Your girlfriend is showing every sign of loyalty, and it sounds less like she's hanging around with him than that she and he still have mutual friends. You might be able to enlist those mutual friends in showing the guy the cold, hard truth. Sounds like they're comfortable enough relaying messages from him to her (stupid move), should be willing enough to go the other way. Confronting the guy yourself is not going to do any good - like he cares about your opinion?! If she tells him again to cease and desist, and his/her friends tell him to knock it off, and he still doesn't get the hint, and he is being harassing, sounds like a restraining order is in order.
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