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Originally posted by uptown
it's kind of a hard subject to discuss,he's said that I appear to have lost some size since losing weight.he's also quite supportive of my interest in getting implants.
I dunno,I look at all these women in pr0n and feel so inadequate in comparision in the breast area.
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Okay... you think that you're in love with him, you're considering a major surgery because you want his approval... and yet it's hard to discuss?
Honey, if you can't talk honestly with this man (or any man) for that matter about your body, how you and he feel about it, then how can you expect to have a real relationship with him?
Couples don't stay together because of looks. They stay together because of the conversation. How many 80 year old men do you think are encouraging their wives of 50 years to have breast implants?
This reminds me of a classic scenario from High School and College:
RandomGirl: Oh god, I was having sex with Joe last night and the condom broke! Do you think I should get tested for diseases or something?
Me: Well, yes but some diseases take time to show up. Have you discussed previous sexual partners with him?
RandomGirl: Oh god no! That would be so embarassing!
Me: So it's perfectly okay for him to see you naked and fuck your brains out, but talking about what you are doing is out of the question?
You have no idea how many variation of that conversation I've had. Or how many blank stares I've endured because of it.
Either start talking, or start walking.