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I was in exactly the same position you are in.I know every circumstance is different,but if I had to do it again,I would have ended the relationship.
Before I left,we dated 6 months.She told me it would work out,everything would be fine etc,..but I was skeptical. I knew doors would open everyday in terms of every experience imaginable ( the excitement of college,new friends etc).
Within a week,we were fighting on the phone because I didn't have 3 hours to talk to her everyday.She wanted me to come home every second weekend which was financially impossible.It got to the point where I almost quit before first term mid terms because I was so behind since I had to deal with her.She would tell me I didn't love her and accused me of cheating. The irony was that she cheated on me,but I was supposed understand because she was lonely,and also I was to blame since I went away. I dumped her that Christmas and had the time of my life for the next three and a half years.
Like I said,every circumstance is different.
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