| As a man and very very strong possibility of being a step parent, I go one only one very Strong rule.  Ultimately MOM is the boss! period, she has made the rules for the kids, and although I will suggest, I listen to her for what is best for them. By loving mom and treating her like gold and not acting like their daddy but moms partner and showing them what I do to make mom happy, the kids what to do the same.  And I treat them like gold as well, but as a I said, MOM has the total and final say in anything regarding the children I and there to help her not to hinder. 
				__________________LEATHER, LATEX and LACE "SSC"
 "Nothing That Gives Pleasure is Bad"
 
 Quality is for those who know
 what they want and are at peace with what they have.
 
 "S/M is about emotion; the erotic tension between my impulse toward something and my resistance against it."-- Virginia Barker
 
 
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