I am mid thirties, and have three kids, and I love em' and can't imagine not having them, but I am in no way a kid nazi, in that if you get married you gotta have kids. It is an issue that should be agreed upon before marriage, cause it will cause horrible dissagreements down the road. If you want to spend some time around kids, do the big brother program or something like it. Volunteer at the YMCA. But don't have them if you don't want to. I think about the money and effort that goes into it, and the sacrifices I make (all of the cool toys I could afford if I didn't have kids!!!!) and just figure it's the trade off. I like having a 14 yr old boy around to mow my yard and lug my guitar equipment around!!
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