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I dunno - I'd say give it a second shot - who knows what happened - maybe something traumatic affected her judgement or somesuch - there are a million reasons why someone can be stupid and fuckup something good for what they think are the right reasons given some extraodinary circumstances - I'd say talk - talk somewhere quiet where you can really let your hair down, and find out what happened. If it makes sense in context, then you'll know what happened and can try and prevent it in the future.
Any good relationship deserves a second shot. If the second one fails for the same reasons - well, hell, if its good enough, i'd even say give it a third, although - fool me once....
So yeah, if this is really worth it to you, give it a shot again. But if the same thing happens all over, then get the hell out, as this may indicate that she's got some serious shit going on that she needs to deal with before she can have a real relationship.
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