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Originally posted by Radio Monk33
Ah well, I guess its none of my business, I just enjoy it when she touches me and I think that she would too. "Do unto others as you'd have them do unto you." 
So do you think I should straight up ask her if she feels uncomfortable or maybe just see what happens? Is there anything I can do about this?
Ah well, I'm glad to get it off my chest at least. Thanks.
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Um, it strikes me that if you are interested in having an intimate relationship (not just intimate relations) with this woman, it is very much your business!
She may be inexperienced and uncomfortable, she may have some experiences or "programming" in her past that makes her ashamed of her own genitals, may think she smells funny, may just not like to be touched there. The only way to find out, as others have suggested, is to ask! It doesn't have to be a big deal - just "I noticed that you do this...is anything wrong?"
In fact, it's generally just a good idea to ask your partner what she likes and doesn't like. Much easier than guessing and making assumptions based on little information.