If you think about the happier times and not dwell on death, I have found this most comforting when dealing with this.
I have lost a lot of family this year and it is hard... I sometimes wonder and try to think what my last visit with them was like and smile looking through pictures.
I lost a very close friend of mine, not to death.. but to accident and horrible brain damage. It feels like he died, not really know who I am when I randomly call ... hearing his mom try to tell him who I am repeatedly.. trying to remind him of Arizona and the times we have shared. It's like I lost a part of my life....
I do wish you the best in coping with this, I know it is hard. I have not lost someone extremely close to me to death.... but just remembering the best times through photo's helps me out and makes me smile.
*hugs* and even more *hugs*
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"Things can only get so bad before they have no choice but to get better.."
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Nitz Walsh : It's not fair God. Why am I still a virgin?........ Stupid gnome.
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