I'm sorry, but I've been reading all the posts in the Ladies Lounge, as I find it really interesting and it gives a real insight into a woman's thoughts and gives good advice for guys to help their love life; and I've found that a lot of you are insecure with yourselves or with your relationship.
All I have to say is that if you're in a relationship, you must be doing something right. If you're with someone and you know that they are happy, then you don't have to feel insecure. It's human nature for a guy to look at another girl that passes by with nothing more than a few pieces of string covering her most intimate parts, but it's just natural. I love my girlfriend with all my heart and would never leave her, but I do it. I can't help it. I guess what I'm trying to say is that you really should feel more comfortable with yourselves. What you see in yourself and in the mirror is probably something completely different than what your significant other sees. You are your toughest critic, and when you look in the mirror, you only see the negative things; but take a step back and look at how happy your SO is with you. I guess what I'm trying to say is that you shouldn't feel so insecure with yourselves (I know; easier said than done). If you know they're going to be there tomorrow and happy as always with you, then you have nothing to worry about.
That's all I have to say, and I hope some of you find it even somewhat enlightening or uplifting.
