Kids (only for those over 30 w/o kids)
Why haven't you had them?
I find myself rationalizing that I shouldn't have kids for health reasons, but it's just that: rationalization.
It makes me sad that my mom feels like some kind of failure since neither of her kids have paired off, let alone had kids of their (our) own. We're both successful in the sense that we support ourselves, but neither of us has an SO, let alone is married or has kids.
It's just such a hassel to try to meet people. Clearly, I'm just too fucking lazy.
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