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OK, dude, it sounds like your girl is like my ex-girl. And I know how it is dawg. I was crazy about her, and we got into a fight one night and she broke it off. Two days later, we were back together, then, about a week later, she just wants to be friends, says getting back together was a mistake. Then a few days after that, she writes me a freeverse poem saying shes crazy about me and not having me is killing her inside. Now, I knew by this time that she couldn't be trusted, and she never knows what she wants. But I just thought that NO ONE could ever write something so heartfelt and not mean it. I didn't think such heartless people could exist. So I took her back.
It went really good for about two more months, and suddenly, its not working out again. She tells me this, we both start crying and talking about it, and she changes her mind. Says she doesn't wanna do something she'll regret again. So she says we'll talk about it again the next day.
But the next morning, I saw the light. I called her and said we were just prolonging the inevitable. That she would just decide again at a further date that it wasn't working out. So I said fuck it. There was no point to being with her. And I ended it.
Well, its a month later, and I'm so glad I did, all she was doing was dragging me down man. But I know whats its like to be crazy about someone, and that will blind you to things. Try to sit down, clear your head, and actually think about as though you were looking from an outsider's perspective. Is it worth it?
And I have to agree with HF, it almost never works out after a couple breaks up once.
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