She phoned me tonight, sobbing so hard that she couldn't hardly talk. She tells me that it was a huge mistake, that she's never felt so aweful, and I've never seen a person sob so hard. But at the same time, I'm worried that if we get back together, it'll all just fall apart again. Of course, it doesn't help that we're both idiots and slept together. Good Lord, I don't know what to do. I don't know what would be most fair to both of us.
I had another thread on the drama, but thought this deserved a new thread, since it wasn't exactly a current girlfriend problem so much as an ex-girlfriend problem. That thread is here:
What did I do wrong? GF advice