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Old 07-27-2011, 01:31 PM   #13 (permalink)
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But please consider this situation as something to be mended, not something to be simply discarded. I think this now because I've been given some hope because of this weight thing.
Well, you found the golden path/excuse you're looking for.

And, sure, it might be a weight thing. And she might get the weight off and be a happy, sexual person.

Is she going to keep it off for the rest of her life? Through kids, as her metabolism slows, through menopause?

Maybe.

Personally, I've never seen a severe diet that worked in the long run.

I'd be more concerned about her view of herself than anything else when it comes to the relationship you have with her.

And, as someone who did once go through a major weight swing (yay for medication), your sexuality is only affected as much as you let it be. I was having the same wild, kinky sex when I was at my heaviest as I am now. It's all in her head.

But, sure, try it. Hope it works out for you. I highly suggest getting her to a therapist for her body image.
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