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Originally Posted by dlish
Personally, I think the OP needs to reevaluate his relationship with his partner. Whatever you do, do not get married to this woman. Sex is a dealbreaker in most relationships and i dont see it being any different in yours if you're here for this type of advice. Like wyopen said, get some professional help.
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I meant to add something like this to my post last night just forgot.
I completely agree. You're 21, that's really pretty young. The difference between 21 and say 28-30 are about as big as the difference between 1 and 5. Really it's huge. If you're not happy with the sex now there's no reason to believe it will improve. You can go the therapy route, if she's willing. Something I wouldn't rule out if I really loved her but I'd also be preparing myself to move on if that either doesn't happens, doesn't really result in the changes you're looking for or she is not willing to openly address the issues.
Good luck finishing up your ATP.