I would suggest not just forgiving her, and hoping she won't do it again, but going to therapy with her and listening, and then figuring out, from what you learn there, if you think she will do it again. Therapy might actually help you move on, in a more mentally healthy way.
Don't ever regret being a loving, forgiving person, but you also don't want to regret being a door mat...
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bill hicks - "I don't mean to sound bitter, cold, or cruel, but I am, so that's how it comes out."
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